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How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant

The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable?



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I'm posting this on behalf of my colleague:

I recently joined a company in a remote small office in the US. One of our company assistants (those checking in visitors at door) is a rude and impolite white woman. I'm not sure if that is because of my race/religion (it's originally a sales department with white dominated employees. We are a small science group working remotely). I'm a PhD scientist busy with depth of our most-important company-wide project and seeing the impoliteness and rudeness of an assistant is disturbing my focus. I'm new with many questions and administrative queries, but I'm hesitated to ask her and usually ask questions after hours when she is replaced. She even ignores my emails.

How to deal with her? Should I email and raise it with her manager as not a complaint, but as a constructive feedback? If yes, how and what would be consequences?



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How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (1)



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  • How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

    –Twyxz
    15 mins ago







  • Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

    –Tina J
    14 mins ago







  • Is she your assistant?

    –Joe Strazzere
    3 mins ago







  • No she is not. She is the company assistant.

    –Tina J
    30 secs ago




add a comment|





-1


I'm posting this on behalf of my colleague:

I recently joined a company in a remote small office in the US. One of our company assistants (those checking in visitors at door) is a rude and impolite white woman. I'm not sure if that is because of my race/religion (it's originally a sales department with white dominated employees. We are a small science group working remotely). I'm a PhD scientist busy with depth of our most-important company-wide project and seeing the impoliteness and rudeness of an assistant is disturbing my focus. I'm new with many questions and administrative queries, but I'm hesitated to ask her and usually ask questions after hours when she is replaced. She even ignores my emails.

How to deal with her? Should I email and raise it with her manager as not a complaint, but as a constructive feedback? If yes, how and what would be consequences?



professionalism human-resources ethics company-culture company-policy





share|improve this question




edited 50 secs ago




Tina J






asked 17 mins ago



How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (2)



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  • How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

    –Twyxz
    15 mins ago


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  • Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

    –Tina J
    14 mins ago







  • Is she your assistant?

    –Joe Strazzere
    3 mins ago







  • No she is not. She is the company assistant.

    –Tina J
    30 secs ago




add a comment|



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I'm posting this on behalf of my colleague:

I recently joined a company in a remote small office in the US. One of our company assistants (those checking in visitors at door) is a rude and impolite white woman. I'm not sure if that is because of my race/religion (it's originally a sales department with white dominated employees. We are a small science group working remotely). I'm a PhD scientist busy with depth of our most-important company-wide project and seeing the impoliteness and rudeness of an assistant is disturbing my focus. I'm new with many questions and administrative queries, but I'm hesitated to ask her and usually ask questions after hours when she is replaced. She even ignores my emails.

How to deal with her? Should I email and raise it with her manager as not a complaint, but as a constructive feedback? If yes, how and what would be consequences?



professionalism human-resources ethics company-culture company-policy





share|improve this question




edited 50 secs ago




Tina J






asked 17 mins ago



How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (3)



Tina JTina J


1606





I'm posting this on behalf of my colleague:

I recently joined a company in a remote small office in the US. One of our company assistants (those checking in visitors at door) is a rude and impolite white woman. I'm not sure if that is because of my race/religion (it's originally a sales department with white dominated employees. We are a small science group working remotely). I'm a PhD scientist busy with depth of our most-important company-wide project and seeing the impoliteness and rudeness of an assistant is disturbing my focus. I'm new with many questions and administrative queries, but I'm hesitated to ask her and usually ask questions after hours when she is replaced. She even ignores my emails.

How to deal with her? Should I email and raise it with her manager as not a complaint, but as a constructive feedback? If yes, how and what would be consequences?



professionalism human-resources ethics company-culture company-policy


professionalism human-resources ethics company-culture company-policy




share|improve this question




edited 50 secs ago




Tina J






asked 17 mins ago



How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (4)



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share|improve this question




edited 50 secs ago




Tina J






asked 17 mins ago



How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (5)



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How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (6)



Tina JTina J


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asked 17 mins ago



How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (7)



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asked 17 mins ago


How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (8)


How to deal with a rude and impolite assistant The Next CEO of Stack OverflowCan an administrative assistant take on the roles of morale building and team building?How to deal with dramatic and over-alarmed employees?How do deal with a rude co-worker as a new hire?How does one deal with an unresonable change in resignation policy?How to deal with a coworker who uses sensuality and attractiveness to get favors and other things done at work?My manager told me to stop helping a (supposedly) underperforming coworker. What are my options?Ethics regarding setup of forwarding rules unknown to mailbox ownerHow to deal with workplace discrimination as a contractor?How to deal with annoying acquaintanceHow to deal with boss asking employees to wear specific clothes when it is uncomfortable? (9)

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  • How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

    –Twyxz
    15 mins ago







  • Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

    –Tina J
    14 mins ago







  • Is she your assistant?

    –Joe Strazzere
    3 mins ago







  • No she is not. She is the company assistant.

    –Tina J
    30 secs ago




add a comment|






  • How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

    –Twyxz
    15 mins ago







  • Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

    –Tina J
    14 mins ago







  • Is she your assistant?

    –Joe Strazzere
    3 mins ago







  • No she is not. She is the company assistant.

    –Tina J
    30 secs ago





How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

–Twyxz
15 mins ago


How is she racist? Or rude? You haven’t explained that. Also the fact you had to point out this person is white is racist in itself

–Twyxz
15 mins ago


Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

–Tina J
14 mins ago


Saying white is to describe the environment. I'm adding details to see if there is any signs of racism.

–Tina J
14 mins ago


Is she your assistant?

–Joe Strazzere
3 mins ago


Is she your assistant?

–Joe Strazzere
3 mins ago


No she is not. She is the company assistant.

–Tina J
30 secs ago


No she is not. She is the company assistant.

–Tina J
30 secs ago

add a comment|




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